is a "closed group" due to privacy issues, I have been privileged to read thousands of
inspiring, life-affirming stories of triumph over adversity. Jeff States decided to become what
we fondly have come to call an "Earth Angel" by donating one of his kidneys to his brother-in-
law at the age of 72. This is his story, in his own words. Thank you so, Jeff, for not only this
selfless act, but also for demonstrating in a singular act of courage that there is always hope,
and that we can live to fight another day.
Michael R. Gaudet.
Please visit : mrgaudet.com
"Earth Angel" Jeff States Donates Kidney at 72. ![]() |
"I wish Michael well on his 'new' kidney journey and also wish him well with his new blog about 'all things kidney' ." |
I first met Michael on a site dedicated to kidney donors, recipients and their families. Michael
lives in Canada and I live in the United States. He is a past kidney recipient and a potential
future kidney recipient.
I am a kidney donor. My story began when my brother-in-law was diagnosed with End-Stage
Kidney Failure in 2011. By 2012, no one in the family was a match and he had to go on
dialysis. I watched my wife suffer for her younger brother and, although I had no relationship
whatsoever with him, I told her that I would be willing to get tested. She was shocked, but
immediately called her brother. To his credit, he told his sister that I would never have to spend
a penny during the evaluation process.
We live 1,200 miles apart from each other. At that time I knew nothing about kidney disease
or what was involved in becoming a living kidney donor. I just assumed it was the right thing to
do. My evaluation took 4-5 months. Since my wife's brother lives in New York and I live in
Florida, I would fly to the hospital where he was on dialysis to go through the testing process.
I will be forever grateful that he had chosen the New York Presbyterian / Weill Cornell
Medical Center in New York City. I later found out that they are one of the top three kidney
transplant centers in the United States. I was eventually approved to donate to my wife's brother
and our surgeries were scheduled for 12/6/2012. It is now almost two and a half years post-op
and both the recipient and donor are issue free.
I have learned much about being a living donor and I have become an advocate in South
Florida, working to get the appropriate information "out there" to the general public, who, like
I was several years ago, are almost totally ignorant about kidney disease and what it means to
become a living donor. My brother-in-law will be 59 later this year and I will be 75.
I was 72 at the time of donation and became the oldest surviving living kidney donor to go
through the living kidney donation process in the past 53 years of the hospital's transplantation
program.
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"Earth Angel" cradles a kidney, which gestates as a prayer of invocation. |
This is exciting. I just love the real-life, real-time chronicle of kidney health as it blossoms here.
ReplyDeleteJeff States so eloquently said " It's amazing how much more recipients have to go through as opposed to donors. So many people, especially recipients, freely use the words heroes and angels referring to their donor and/or donors in general There should also be a word or words complimenting recipients for the trials and tribulations they have to go through!"
ReplyDeleteThanks + psu68 Jeff States. For the time being, I'll stick with "Dialysis Warrior"!
DeleteWorks for me!!!
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